Emotional Spending – Do not Become a Victim

Have you ever thought about the process ofshopping, gambling and over-spending consumers
spending money? If you do the research before youusually end up with large credit card debt. The other
spend on big ticket items by comparison shopping,end of the personality spectrum includes people who
looking for sales, searching for on-line coupons, andlive frugally because they fear poverty. This fear
checking with consumer report websites forkeeps them from spending to the degree that they
knowledgeable recommendations; then you are adeny themselves things that they need for a better
savvy spender, and your money is working for you.quality of life. Others try to avoid money issues by
How Most People Spendrefusing to focus on how they spend or why. Often,
What most people don’t factor into thebusy people who make a good income don’t
process of spending money is the emotional aspectmanage their money well because they lack the time
of this action. Often people make purchases becauseto do so. All of these people miss the opportunities
they have been influenced and persuaded byto put their money to work for them, even if it just
advertising and other subtle but effective types ofmeans moving it to a different account to get a
manipulation. Marketing experts, for example arehigher interest rate.
masters of psychological manipulation, which is whyThinking about Why We Spend
advertisements always show happy, beautiful peopleIt is very important, now more than ever in this
using specific consumer goods to attain their state ofsluggish economy, to start thinking about how and
well-being.why we spend money and how to get the most for
Our Parents Influenceevery dollar we spend. The all important bottom line
Most of us have feelings that are both positive andis preserving financial solvency. Knowing why we
negative about spending our hard-earned dollars.spend will help us manage our money more wisely.
Many of our perceptions about spending, saving, andFive Steps to Managing Money
even earning money, come from learned experiences1) Track where money is being spent and the
we received during our formative years. Ouramount
parents’ behaviors with money were often2) Set specific long term goals for your money
our first exposure to the process. If they budgeted,3) Pay cash, or use your debit card
coupon clipped, saved and lived within their means,4) Think before you buy to curb Impulse Shopping
we probably will too. If earning a six figure income5) Prepare for periods of unemployment by putting
was a focal point, or living pay check to pay checkaside savings and purchasing Disability Insurance, and
played a big role in daily life; those memories had anDeath Benefit Insurance for yourself and your family.
influence on us, as well. Studies suggest that a largeIf we decide to focus on where the money is going,
part of our emotional ties to money are directlyand why, and put a plan in place in case our earning
correlated with our acceptance or rejection of ourpotential is lost, either temporarily or long term, we
parents’ financial decisions.will be smart money managers and not victims of our
Money Personalitiesown emotional spending.
Money personalities vary greatly. Compulsive